Teen fan keeps faith in Elvis Presley

MEMPHIS, Tennessee - Demographically speaking, a girl like Isabella Scott ought to be obsessed with the likes of Justin Bieber. But in fact, her heart belongs to Elvis Presley.

In her bright cotton dress and cowboy boots, the 13-year-old from Bonifay, Florida stands out among the significantly older crowd at Elvis Week, the annual jamboree in Memphis dedicated to the king of rock 'n' roll.

But as the youngest president of any Elvis Presley fan club anywhere in the world, Scott clearly knows her stuff.

"With his music, he has so many songs that you can connect with -- like, if you're having a bad day, his songs can pick you up," she said on Tuesday at Presley's suburban Graceland estate, which she first visited in 2010.

"And I just love his life story," she explained in an engaging southern lilt. "You know he liked to give and to be generous to people."

Presley died suddenly 35 years ago Thursday at the age of 42 -- that's 22 years before Scott was born -- and well before the Internet technology that enabled her to bond with other Elvis aficionados worldwide.

Her web-based Elvis Aaron Presley-TCB 4EVR Official Fan Club ("TCB" meaning Taking Care of Business) has 1,470 members, plus a Facebook page and a Twitter account (@GracelandGal) that she updates several times a day.

"Found the security guard who calls me, 'Pres!' I love being an #ElvisFan club president. #ElvisWeek #elvis," she tweeted from Graceland earlier this week.

"Basically, I just post things going on that are happening here at Graceland and I try to keep my members updated with all things Elvis," said Scott, who spends about two to three hours a week maintaining her virtual fan club.

But it's not entirely about Elvis.

For her YouTube channel, Scott chose "Start Me Up" by the Rolling Stones as the soundtrack for a video mash-up of her Graceland snapshots, betraying a precocious taste for classic rock.

"I listen basically to anything new on the radio," she replied when asked to share her favorite tunes. "I like oldies. I like country. I like any kind (of music), really."

Scott -- whose other extra-curricular passion is cheerleading -- vividly remembers being introduced to Presley's music during a family road trip when she was all of five years old.

"My dad had made a CD for us to listen to on the way ... and it had a lot of Elvis hits on it like 'Kentucky Rain,' 'In the Ghetto' and 'Suspicious Minds,' and I really liked it," she recalled.

"I kept wanting (my parents) to replay it and that's how I started loving Elvis."

But what do her peers at school make of her Presley obsession?

"They sort of think it's weird that I like Elvis," she said. "They wonder why I'm such a big Elvis fan and a fan club president when Justin Bieber is going out on tour and stuff."

And what does she tell them in response?

"Elvis is the best... His legacy lives on today." - AFP

source: gmanetwork.com

Psychiatrist's advice for Valentine's: Don't love too much; cry out your pain

MANILA, Philippines - On the day of hearts, a ranking officer of the Philippine Psychiatric Association had unsolicited advice for all lovers: “too much love can kill you”.

Dr. Bernadette Arcena explained she simply meant too much love can “kill” one who plunges into depression, low self-esteem or even temporary insanity.

“Wag masyado magmahal … masama. Yung tama lang. Magkakasakit ka. Parang sakit din yan, kapag kumain ng too much sugar, magkakasakit ka [Don’t love excessively, or you could get sick. That’s like a disease. If you eat too much sugar, you’ll get sick],” she said.

A state of depression among individuals may lead to low self-esteem, insecurity, paranoia or even obsession, Arcena said, citing recent examples. Late last year, a 13-year-old boy shot his alleged 16-year-old male lover before shooting himself inside a shopping mall in Pampanga.

Soon after, a woman shot dead her husband and tried to shoot herself in a shopping mall in Quezon City. A young security guard at the mall who tried to stop her from shooting herself was himself killed.

Gripped by extreme jealousy, a confessed gay man tried to leap from the window of the 16th floor of a building in Quezon City, admitting that he was “mentally stressed” because he was jealous of his partner. He also tried to slit his wrist and called on “men who have gay lovers to stay faithful.”

“The problem there is your insecurity, [because] you are not in your proper mind,” Arcena said. Still, she advised the lovesick not to despair. “There is another chance for you to love again. If you have been with a bad person, maybe there is someone better [who is] meant for you.”

She also advised those who are heartbroken to cry it all out, to release the pain and anger that lie within.

source: interaksyon.com